The Best is Yet to Come

Dear Sis,

One September day 5 years ago, I was wandering the aisles of an arts and crafts store looking for a distraction. My heart ached as I stood on the edge of a decision that weighed heavy.

Have you ever straddled a line?  You’ve got one foot firmly planted on either side of a finish line. Stuck there by uncertainty. The future seems fragile at best.

Are you like me sis? You know God has a plan, but you just don’t see it. And to be honest, seeing is believing.

That morning I spent time asking God to help me believe there was something worth saving in this relationship. I cried out to God to just give me a glimpse of hope.  I just wanted one single moment of sweet assurance.  As I write these words, I recognize this sounds so composed, when in reality I wanted much more. I wanted a clean, clear answer to a messy, clouded question. Should I stay, or should I go?

As I waited for answers, I wandered down aisle after aisle of creative wonders. I found myself in the aisle of “misfit” items. The clearance rack was strewn with assorted novelties. But one small item caught my eye. It was a rubber stamp sitting up straight, its words clean and clearly printed in bold, block letters.

“The Best is Yet to Come”

Sis, have you ever known, just known without a doubt that words were intended for you?  As I walked to the checkout with my little piece of hope, I felt my heartache ease. I carried that stamp around in my purse for a year. I needed the sweet reminder that hope lies in the truth of those words.

Then one day a sweet friend was diagnosed with cancer. She stood brave through the trials of treatment. The only thing I held out to her was a little rubber stamp that held hope. I gave her that stamp because hope holds us up when we are straddling a finish line. She survived that cancer and a year later found a friend needing a dose of hope. The stamp once again moved into the hands of someone just longing for encouraging words.

Me.

Oh Sis, are you like me, finding yourself in need of hope on a regular basis?

I had just moved for the first time in 32 years and I was desperately lonely. Then my mom died. Cancer took her quickly. So standing alone in a new place, broken hearted, I needed a glimpse of hope. So that sweet friend dug that stamp out of a drawer and pressed it into my hand. Pressed it right into my heart.

Sis, today I sit here as my sweet friend straddles a finish line. Her cancer has returned this time with purpose. She lays in the hospital ready to cross right into God’s loving arms. Her future home is full of light and life and fresh beginnings. I tell her I look forward to embracing her on the other side. I tell her to breathe deep and know the love she feels flow over her is His. I tell her the blanket of peace that brings her comfort is His.  And I send her my love and whisper in her ear…the Best is yet to come, the Best is yet to come, the Best is yet to come.

Dear Father,

Each of us stands at the finish line wavering because we are weakened by hopelessness. Lord, thank you for giving us glimpses of Your hope. The hope of eternity. The hope of a new beginning when we just don’t see a way through. You promise that you go before us and stand behind us and are always with us. So no matter where we stand we never stand alone. We lean in and depend on that truth because hope is born there.  And peace follows and settles in and we whisper sweet prayers of thankfulness for Your Presence.  Amen

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See and Be Seen!

Morning my friends,

I jotted down these few notes yesterday morning and as I read them today, I thought of how we never feel like our purpose is quite clear. We spend days, weeks, months, years…a lifetime trying to see with clarity the path God has set out for us. Could it be we are just looking in all the wrong places?

Would you be willing to join me and try a little experiment to test our vision. A challenge to the usual perspective. The same perspective the world holds out as truth because it’s what everyone else is doing. I wonder if we would be willing to take a chance and find a new view.

1. Look UP! Sometimes we are so intent on keeping our head down and trudging through we miss the view altogether.
2. Look OUT! There is something worth seeing outside ourselves, our world, our understanding.
3. Look IN! There is a great reward when we look into someone’s eyes, into someone’s heart, into someone’s story.

Why look? Because you will see what is beautiful, what is worth treasuring, what needs to be seen.
And once you see, you get the sweet pleasure of leaning in and whispering with gentleness again and again and again…I see you, and there is good in you.

Because the world just longs for one single person to see them. To see the unique beautiful thing in them and take a single moment to point to it with child like joy.

We stand in wonder of our purpose in this place, searching to and fro for answers to the big questions, when the purpose is in the people right before our very eyes.

Jesus knew this. His entire life was a journey home, back to the place he belonged. And on His journey he allowed his path to be interrupted by people who just needed to be seen. They each needed just one person to look up, to look out, to look in. Jesus sees the little glimmering thing in someone’s eyes, in someone’s heart, in someone’s story and He points to it with joy. He points to the gift they are to the world.

I think Jesus was the perfect example of seeing people as His purpose. He knew his final destination, but didn’t spend time thinking about how he was going to get there. He knew His home was waiting for His return, and that confidence gave Him release from the focus of what came next. His question was always who came next.

Has God ever shown you the beauty of a soul so clearly you found it impossible to look away? When you see the evidence of Jesus in a person you lean in because you know, you just know there is much to be gained by it. It’s worth seeking out every time.
It’s a place for lingering because it fulfills a longing. We need glimpses of Him.

What if our purpose was to be the one who sees the beauty and doesn’t just admire it from afar, but who steps up, steps out, and steps in to speak words proclaiming it?. What could we build if our purpose was people?

You know, all of us lonely people just trying to make it through this journey need each other.

Could we make a place with a pace that allows us to just breathe deep and find rest for the weary, worn out parts of our souls? It could be a place we walk away from immediately looking to return because someone there recognizes the one lovely thing in us. It could be a refuge from the world we dwell in that consistently tells us we are not enough. It could be a place to see and be seen.

So if we are looking for a purpose to awaken our passion, maybe we need to look at the people who happen to be standing right in front of us today. Because my friend, they are just like you, and just like me, they long to be seen. Will we allow our journey home to be interrupted?

Someone, somewhere needs us to see the one good thing in them. Will we look up, look out, look in and proclaim the beauty right there?

I’m in! Because Jesus did it for me!

 

my prayer…

dear Father,

we tend to look in every direction trying to find purpose for our time here on earth. We think it’s gonna be a big thing, a bold thing, a bright thing. But we are measuring it wrong. We stand in a world that tells us in loud voices that things have to be done, plans have to me made. But, You showed us a different way. You saw us. You saw that we needed to be seen. And the love that flowed through the way You looked into us, well it changed the world. So Lord, let us see others the way you see us. With love brimming, compassion spilling and sweet whispers of encouragement tumbling from our lips. Help us to just look and see the purpose You proclaimed, to love the people right in our path. Amen